How Do You Get Good at NLP?

What are some of the things that you do to get good at NLP?

And maybe we should define “good” also…but i invite the ideas!
:) )

How Do I Become a Confidence Coach?

I know what it’s like to have no or little confidence – been there. I would now like to help others become more confident also. Does anyone know of any confidence coach training courses in London? Or would it be best to go for life coaching or indeed, nlp certification?

Thanks for your help!
I have spent days and days searching on different search engines but nothing has come up which is why I turned to Yahoo Answers!
Questioned M – And this gives me information on confidence courses in what way????????

Show them this;

Okay let me try to help you with my answer through what I’ve experienced, understood, and gained knowledge from. I will try to go through with you one by one in your question, please read on;

First off the root of being shy is fear.
When the mind is afraid then the body will get the message, so then your body will turn tensed and rigid.

Okay to start off with building self-confidence in yourself and to be around people see this;

We are all human and we ALL have good and bad qualities. There is no existing human that is perfect. We are all ordinary and equal. Our skin holds our flesh and bones together, we have a brain, heart, liver, lung, ears, nose, mouth. What makes us different from each other really? In reality we are all equal and the same.

Now when your in a fearful situation such as being around people, well I want you to imagine every negative or positive outcome that may happen to you when your in a fearful situation and just "let it happen" instead of "preventing" it. When you try to prevent these outcomes made up in your mind, you create a barrier of fear, which makes your body turn tensed and rigid. Think about this though has fear ever benefited you in your whole life? Or has it instead made your situation worse by making your body turn tensed and rigid?
You are human, you are certainly going to die in this lifetime and so is everyone else. So "try" to "enjoy" every moment you can living, instead of living in "fear". You can possibly die next week, next month or maybe in the next 2 years.

Want to make new friends? Possibly a date?
Well go and just talk to people! How?
"You won’t know until you try"
"Don’t doubt, attempt, make mistakes, learn, move forward, live"

You won’t know if a person you want to be friends with will be able to relate with you and would hang out with you until you yourself start talking to them in a friendly manner. Holding a decision is like making a delay, does it ever help? Don’t be afraid to make mistakes, humans make mistakes ALL the time, but what is important is that we "recognize" our mistake, "learn" from our mistake, and try to "avoid" doing it in the future.

Also if you want people to treat with well and with respect then you must also treat EVERYONE well and respectful.
" Treat others how you want them to treat you "
" Whatever you do goes back to you "
I am referring to karma.

If you treat a certain person badly, then you will get back the same treatment and it does not have to be from the same person you treated badly. So remember to treat everyone well ( that’s if you want the same treatment, which I’m sure you do). I’m not telling you to live your life at all, I’m just telling you the laws of karma, the laws of living.

**Okay this is for thinking "negative" which is the worst thing you can possibly do. Look I want you to realize that thinking negative has not ever helped you or anybody in your whole life. In reality thinking negative does not help at all. In the other hand thinking positive will help you to look good in situations, feel good, have a good positive attitude, where people want to be around you for.

Look I want you to remember this quote;

"There are not negative things, just negative thinkers and There are not positive things, just positive thinkers." ( its a negative act when it is harmful such as killing, stealing, bad use of words, ect. you get the idea lol )

I’ll explain what the quote means; It means pretend I thought that a certain music band is good making music, which is a positive thought and then on the other hand there’s another person who thinks negatively of them and who thinks that they aren’t good. What I’m trying to say in reality there is no positive or negative things its all what ourselves judge things as. You can look at everything positive, and just set your mind to positive. Don’t let other peoples negative opinions and thoughts hold you back from looking at the positive things because people who are positive are people who will want to be your friend because look in reality who the heck wants to be friends with someone who is always negative? To be honest no I wouldn’t and I’m pretty sure you don’t either. While on the other hand having a buddy who stays positive and helps out is a friend that everyone wants to have.

The observer IS the experiment

Steve: "the observer IS the experiment" …: how would this relate to the faciliator?

For Those Interested in Meditation

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Hypnosis 101 – How to Use Hypnosis For Self Improvement

Although hypnosis requires the guided assistance of a hypnotherapist, whereas self hypnosis does not, they are both really self hypnosis, as you cannot be hypnotised effectively against your will. Your interest in hypnosis will no doubt be linked to a need for either improving an area of your life or helping to discard an unwanted problem or issue, and as such you will be a willing participant to benefit from the process.

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Here's my dream:
I am certified in handwriting analysis – just barely so I have more learning to do there.
I am becoming certified in the emotion code – this is a method of removing trapped negative emotions from the physical body.
I am combining the t…

All-New Advanced Mastery Training: Coming August 1-7, 2010

Because last year’s Advanced Mastery Training was so successful, both we and many of our participant group have been eager for more of the fun, inspiring, and innovative learning experiences we shared last year.

Registration has just opened for the second Advanced Mastery Training—August 1-7, 2010 in Boulder, Colorado. Specially designed for NLP Master Practitioners who want to go beyond their current level of mastery, this training offers a unique opportunity to learn leading-edge models and methods as part of a wonderful community of fellow learners and explorers.

For years I’ve had a vision of a training which would gather some of NLP’s most creative and innovative trainers into the same training room at the same time, to provide multiple perspectives on advanced topics in a room of skilled participants. With the help of 47 colleagues, 3 Trainers, and our Coordinator Team, we began to unfold this possibility last year. This year we plan to build on the foundation laid—amplifying those aspects that worked well last year to bring you an even more dynamic and enriching learning experience.

This year’s training highlights…

  • All-New Content.
  • 3 New Trainers and a 5-trainer team. We are pleased to have international trainers Nick Kemp (UK), Danie Beaulieu (Canada), and Lucas Derks (Holland), along with returning trainers Andy Austin (UK), and Steve Andreas (US).
  • 7 Full Days (one day longer than last year).
  • Each Trainer will be sharing in-depth knowledge of the gems of his/her recent work. Plus we’ll be continuing the practice of live client-session demonstrations with people who have no background in NLP.

…all at less than half the price of some “7-day NLP Practitioner” courses!

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Last year’s training was inspiring, rejuvenating, and deepening.  Here’s what some of our community had to say about it…

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—Suzanne Scott, California

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—Paul Tracey, Ireland

Although this is an advanced training, last year we greatly appreciated the “beginner’s mind” with which our community of learners came together to explore and learn with ample fun and laughter. To see video excerpts from last year’s training, watch this:

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How to Get Rid of Mental Disturbance Using Free Hypnosis Scripts

Hypnosis is something which refers to the mental status or just the arrangement of the outlook and one person belief. This hypnosis is also known as the process which is initiated by hypnotic induction, which includes of a series of a primary instructions and suggestions.

Can Hypnotherapy Change Me?

The simple answer is No. Hypnosis cannot change you. It can however help you make the changes you genuinely want to make in order to change. Hypnosis is not some form of mind control – No one can be made to do anything they don’t want to do.